Winning an election vote by vote

When you read about the ridiculous amounts of money being channeled by PACs and billionaires into the 2012 election – all sanctioned by the Citizens United Supreme Court decision – it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and discouraged.  How can a candidate without big money ever hope to win an election?

Then I think about Quaide Williams.

Quaide is a U.S. citizen who lives in Germany. Two years ago, Quaide, inspired by Republican Sarah Palin and her campaign bus, started planning a 6-week, trans-Europe voter registration bus tour to register Americans who live in Europe for absentee ballots in the 2012 election.

U.S. citizens who vote from abroad are an overlooked but increasingly important block of voters. In the 2008 U.S. senate race in Minnesota, for example, Al Franken won the seat by 312 votes. This is fewer than the total number of absentee ballots received in Minnesota during that election. And according to an article in The Huffington Post, if the number of U.S. citizens who live aboard were a state, it would be the 18^th largest in the U.S.

Although the tour was organized in cooperation with Democrats Abroad, Quaide and his fellow passengers, Americans who live elsewhere in Europe and who join him for a few days at a time, will help register any U.S. citizen who wants to vote regardless of party affiliation. Why?  Probably because they, like me, believe voting is essential for a healthy robust democracy. Of course, they would prefer to register more Democrats than Republicans, but they understand that the act of voting is important in itself.

The bus tour is essentially self-financed, and driver and riders rely on members of Democrats Abroad to house and feed them as they travel from city to city. Last Saturday, following a busy afternoon in Stockholm, Quaide and his “roadies” made a quick stop in Västerås, a city near me. I greeted them with coffee – this is Sweden after all – and a canister of homemade peanut butter cookies while they went into action. We received local media coverage and even registered a couple of voters.  An hour and a half later, at 6:00 PM, Quaide and his team hit the road again for a 5½-hour drive to Oslo. The bus tour will visit 27 cities in 13 countries.

Unless the PACs and deep pocket donors are literally buying votes, it’s still flesh and blood individuals – I can’t say “people” for legal reasons – who will decide this election.  And it’s important to remember that the biggest spender doesn't always win.

How do you counter the influence of big money in an election? Vote by vote, with dedicated volunteers and an occasional homemade cookie.

© 2012 Kvick Thoughts. All rights reserved.

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Letting go - parents and kids

I was cleaning the other day and ran across two journals I had started when my children were young. I had intended to write down memorable things they said and did as they grew up, but I didn’t get very far. Not surprisingly, “life” intervened and I had made only a few entries in each notebook. But one item caught my eye. My eldest daughter had told me, “I want to be poor when I grow up so I can live with you.”

I’m flattered she had loved me so much.  Out of curiosity, I decided to test her to see how she felt about this today. But I posed the question a little differently. “If I’m poor when I retire,” I asked, “how would you feel if I lived with you?” “Well,” she hesitated, “if you absolutely have nowhere else to go, I suppose you’d have to.”

What happened to my loving, trusting little girl? What a difference a few years make!

When kids are young, they can’t imagine life without their parents. When I was young, I thought children died when their parents did. I obviously hadn’t thought this through, but that didn’t matter.  I had no concept of myself independent of them. We were completely symbiotic: if they die, I die. It did occur to me that, by this logic, if they died “tomorrow,” I would never grow up. This puzzled but did not worry me. I thought that’s just how things are.

But my parents did not die, hence my ability to write this post! It’s the paradox of parenting:  you want your children to love you, and to some extent, need you, but it’s your job to teach them to live without you. The truest act of love is to drive your children away! Maybe that’s why my parents gave each of their children a suitcase as a high school graduation gift.

As my daughter intrinsically knew, parents and adult children in Sweden and in the United States do not live together unless they have to. So she needed the excuse of poverty to continue to live with me as an adult. She did not yet know she can have both self-reliance and a live-in mom, if she wants.

But now she does, and she’s no longer as keen on the mom part. Paradoxically, the better I do my job as a parent, the less my children need me. Yet, the more I need them.

I’ll miss her when she moves on. But maybe she’ll miss me, just a little, too.

© 2012 Kvick Thoughts. All rights reserved. 

I feel vindicated!

It's official: Västmanland county (landstinget Västmanland) has the highest number of patient complaints of all counties in Sweden. Go, Västmanland!

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